just came to blor from home after diwali ... was opening latch of my door of my flat on 14th floor.
I heard sound of someone fighting. husband was trying to convince her.Shevti chidun to nighun gela. Me aNi watchman tithech hoto. ani 5 min sagaLa shant hota ...
amhi ekmekankade pahila ...ani amhi varati dhawlo. manaat ji bhiti hoti ti khari hoti ... ti kathadyachya palikade , chchajjyavar ubhi hoti..
ek paul pudhe ani busss...
anKhi vait mhanje ....tiche doLe shant hote ... khambir hote... NirNay kadachit pakka hota...
Me ani watchman 10-15 footanvar ubhe hoto.
one wrong word from us n she would hav killed herself.
awkword silence for 10-15 seconds ... payakhalchi jamin sarkaNe etyadi yalach mhaNat asawet ...
mulgi shikleli vataat hoti. IT companyt vagaire kaam karat asawi.
Me manatlya manat vakyanchi juLavNi suru keli ...
{ plz dont do that ,dont waste your life..blah blah ... tyapudhe kahi suchena ...}
Babu ( watchman,age-55 ) : edi chesi yem sadhyam aaitundi ? ( wat r u gonna achieve doing this ?)
she : Y u r here ?
Babu : whats reason u want to do this ?
She- none of ur concern ...
babu : at least talk with ur parents ,,, some one else might be blamed for ur act.
She : i dont have anyone ... I ran away from home to marry that bastard.
( finally he is able to make some connection. )
amhi thode pudhe sarakalo.
Babu : y? what has he done ?
She : he is going around with some other women...( errr)
Babu : *** ** ***** ***** (pure kannada stuff..)
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i couldnt understand what babu said ... but he was able to make her cry which was immensly necessary at that point of time.
barach veL dabun dharalela bandh futla. kathadyavar doka theun ti radayla lagli.
we got a chance, we went near to hold her from falling down n then called her parents etc etc ...
Point is, in situations like these education.. skills.... sensitivity(?)...
nothing works... never felt so helpless.
babu'cha experience tevdha kaamala aala,,,,,